The most common trait women name attractive in a man is a sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, they say, we are going to hit it off. As a beginner for the longest time I worried about how good my sense of humor was. Am I funny enough? Am I funny at all? Until I realized one thing: it doesn’t matter. Here is why: if she likes you she will laugh at your jokes no matter how dumb, flat, primitive and ridiculous they are. If she doesn’t like you your jokes are going to fall flat even if you’re the funniest guy on the face of this planet. It’s that simple.
It’s a classic case of confusing cause and effect. Girls think they liked the guy because he made them laugh. But in reality they liked him first and that’s why his jokes made them laugh.
Sure a girl can also laugh at your jokes if you’re really good but that doesn’t mean she is going to sleep with you. Why? Because being funny is not as important as women claim it is.
Think about it if women really valued humor as much as they say they do comedians would be dating super models. I don’t know if you know but comedians don’t get laid. Not even the famous ones. Well maybe the famous ones do but I would argue that it has very little to do with their stand-up material and a lot to do with being rich and famous. Russell Brand may be an exception here. He would have gotten laid even if he wasn’t famous. He is good looking, has a British accent and looks like he has access to all kinds of drugs. There is also a difference between being a comedian and being funny in a conversation. Many of the famous comedians admitted that they are not very funny in their everyday life.
So if you are like me stop worrying about being funny because it doesn’t matter. A girl that likes you will enjoy your sense of humor. And girls that don’t like you… well who cares about them anyway?