My name is Clark, I live in Philly, that’s my mug on the photo and this is my blog. I’m 6’3” , currently 205 pounds, I come from the former Soviet Union and I speak Russian. I don’t pretend to be something I’m not. It’s a cliché but with me what you see is what you get.
This blog contains my opinion on the subject of dating, getting fit, staying motivated and having balls.
I only use terms “pickup” and “pickup artist” because that’s how majority of guys get introduced to this topic today, including myself. However, men wanted to get better with women since the beginning of time and so it is foolish to think that modern “pickup” is some sort of a new invention. If anything it is a new stage in the art of getting better with women.
This resource is intended for an average guy interested in getting better with women. I used to be that average guy and I like to believe that I’ve gotten better over the past four years. It is meant to give as much information in as little volume as possible because I believe the less theory you fill your head with the better off you are in pickup (especially as a beginner). I will give my own take on pickup related topics drawing mainly from personal experience and observations but also some instructional material I found to be effective along the way.
You will find me contradicting “mainstream pickup” advice quite often and it will be primarily due to the fact that I am not trying to sell you anything.
I will be telling things as they are. You’re not going to hear me saying you can get any woman you want, because you can’t. I’m not going to reveal some amazing tricks that will make women crazy about you cause there are no such tricks. All of the tricks and “secrets” are nothing but marketing gimmicks invented to sell you shit. Because if I tell you that pickup is hard work and getting better with women means improving your life it doesn’t sound fun and easy. And it isn’t. Yet that is the only way. At least the only way I know.
I’ve never taken any pickup boot camps or attended any seminars. More often than not I will recommend against investing in any pickup material as there is an abundance of it available for free. Also this is not an anti mainstream pickup or anti pickup resource. I am not going to bash or expose anyone mainly because I frankly don’t know enough about any particular self-proclaimed “gurus” or instructors or schools of thought in pickup. Also I just couldn’t care less about them. Btw I don’t pretend to be one. I’m just a guy who got better with women and a few other things and wants to share it with you. I may disagree with a lot of traditional pickup advice, however pickup was what got me started on a path of getting better with women and overall worked out very well for me.
At the beginning of my journey about 4 years ago I’ve read everything on pickup I could get my hands on. I did that for months without any practice. Then slowly but surely I started going out and getting better. As with anything else getting better with women takes time and practice. Gradually I realized that most of the theory I learned was useless and thus a huge waste of time. Reality is such that some women will like you and others won’t. There is not much you can do about that. Your objective as a man is to be able to identify women that like you and capitalize on that.
If you have something to say email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or leave a comment below.